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Rambling – Work

I work in a small office building which is ran by our local benefits centre which is pretty much just a recruitment agency that only deals with people who have been unemployed for over six months. This means everyday I meet people who have been unemployed for either 6 months or the more extreme 20 years (There is one like that). Some of these people are the nicest people you could meet, others are worse than sour milk.

Working in here has gave me a huge perspective on the unemployed in my area, like there is no real specific age, race or gender grouping. I’ll admit there are a large amount of White Men aged between 30 – 50 but I would say more woman in that group may be stay at home mums and not claim Job Seekers.

Some of these people come in and talk away to you and are very polite, others are horrible to you or don’t bother speaking at all. I will admit I have a large preference to the ones that talk to me and make conversation and I tend to remember there names. But I do assume most people are like that.

I’d say I’d know maybe fifty – one hundred of our clients names and out of that at least twenty are for all the wrong reasons. There are some little older ladies who will talk away about what they do in there spare time; one goes out to dances with her friends but complains that they’re all paired off now so its just her that’s having all the fun, there’s some closer to my age who talk about going out on the weekends and getting drunk and there’s some in-betweens who would talk for hours about there pets or the weather.

I have a few clients that I know will always speak when there in, so I make more of an effort with them as they like being spoken to, but there’s others I don’t even make eye contact with. I have a few reasons for this, as some are horrible people, that would scream at you for looking at them the wrong way. I’ve actually had someone who went insane as we couldn’t refund them for a bus ticket he hadn’t even bought yet. That day he even decided he was going to make a complaint against us to the department for employment and Learning and then make a complaint against them as it was there fault overall.

We also have this group of people who don’t want to work, don’t want to come in and don’t want to do anything. I call this group the hopeless group. There is one person in this group who another client has actually commented on saying he needs to be slightly more positive. Everyone in my office knows who this man is and knows not to expect him at any workshops or classes as he just doesn’t care enough to turn up.

I was talking to another client who said – “I don’t see why some people come in here just to be moody and destructive whenever all they have to do is look for suitable jobs for two hours then go home. Some people here must not want to find any work and just sit on benefits.”

After he said this, it really made me think about how many of the people that come in to us have no intentions of finding a job and expect us to do it for them. We can only help those who are willing to work with us and try themselves as well.

Sorry if this is really ramble-y. I was just super annoyed with our clients today and how little some of them care about getting off benefits. Although we do get the odd person who tries really hard and actually finds work, so its not all doom and gloom. 

Until next time!

Bronagh c: 

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To-Read Lists!

Hiya Guys!

So like everyone who loves books, I have a to-read list. Some of it is rereads, others are completely new reads that I’ve picked up in a book store for any reason, either the cover, genre or the author. 

Right now,  my to read list is pretty small, as I’m pretty tight on money and can’t afford to go out and buy a lot of books (but I still do, and hope I have enough for food) 

I try to get through my to read pile at a decent rate, but usually don’t as I’ll start a new book or have a “book Hangover” and I just can’t read another book as I’m still living in the world of the last one. This happened a lot after finishing The Mortal Instruments. I read the whole series one after the other until I was finished, so I struggled to read any other books for a while, or remember what happened in each separate book. So now I try to take my time when reading a book series as I don’t want to worry about spoilers when talking about a book series.

So my current to read list is;

  • The Beautiful Creatures (Book 1) – Kami Garcia  (New)
  • Kissed By An Angel – Elizabeth Chandler (Reread)
  • I Hate Myseflie – Shane Dawson (New)
  • City of Bones – Cassandra Clare (Rereading)
  • The Maze Runner – James Dashner (New)

This doesn’t include any books from my most recent book buying spree, which will be in a future book haul post, but I think its enough to get through about a month and a few bus and train jounerys.

Do any of you guys have a to read or a must reads list? If you do comment it down below and we can swap ideas, who knows we may even find each other a new favourite book!

Until Next Time

Bronagh x

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The Daydreamer award!

So about a week (or more, my time keeping is horrible) after being nominated I’m finally getting around to completing this post!

So Firstly I want to thank Madam_W for nominating me! Thank you so so much this really did make me smile!

Also I want to thank Caitlin who created this award. So check them out!

Again, there are rules for this award, and I copy-pasted them for you:

1) Thank the person who gave you the award.
2) Complete the challenge they set you.
3) Select a blog or blogs that you want to give the award to. (The amount of blogs you select in unlimited!)
4) Tell them about it and set them a challenge.
5) You can link my blog at the bottom (but only if you want to).

My response to Madam W’s challenge

So I have to share an embarrassing or funny story about myself. This is actually really difficult as I have so many embarrassing story’s as I am extremely clumsy and I fall a lot. So I will use my most recent fall as my embarrassing story.

I went to the Kerrang! Tour in Dublin last month, and as our hotel was only a short walk from the venue, my partner and I decided to walk back. As usual everything was normal, I was walking like a normal person then boom! I slipped on a grate. In the middle of the road. With traffic coming. It wasn’t even a gracious slip, it was like I decided I had to rug the road. I got up as quickly as I could, and after I got off the road, I noticed I couldn’t walk on my left ankle. This lead to about a full week of limping around and not having the ability to walk at all. And trust me, me limping is even funnier than me falling down, its a slight to see as I can barely walk as it is, so then I just turn into a lop sided person who has lost all control. My Ankle still hurts now.. I should probably see a doctor..

Anyway… The Nominees are: *drums roll please*

Opinionated Man (As he already is really interesting so I think he’ll far well with my challenge)

Chantal and Shekinah

faridanaz

And anyone else who wants to try this!

My Challenge to you:

I took my time thinking about this.. and I would like you guys to write an informercal script for whatever if sitting next to you on your right.

I know thats crappy, but infomericals are cheesy as hell and are usually quite funny, so have some fun with it! Make soap have healing powers or a towel also double as a shoe.

Have some fun with it!!

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Hi! Again!!

Hey Guys!

In case no one noticed in the last post, my sign off is different now! 
I felt it was too much to not mention a name, and feel like having a first name for me may make you guys feel better when reading my blogs and any ramblings I happen to post on here.

I don’t plan to change my URL, as that would cause issues else where, but I have edited the likes of my blog title to fit this change.

I am working on a top five must reads post as we speak, which should be up by the end of the week. I’m also considering posting up my workout plan as some people may find it helpful!

Until Next Time

Bronagh x

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Random Ramblings – Weddings

Do any of you guys ever just want to go on and on about something for no reason other than it’s on your mind? I’m like that all the time!

I am be extremely uninteresting and I don’t have many interests, but I can ramble on about everything and anything. I just keep going over a thought and bring it into a plan and then consider if I could make it happen or not. Like right now I’m thinking of the future and a future career plan.

I like the idea of having my own bridal shop or opening a wedding planning business as I adore weddings. I love the idea of knowing that I get to spend my time in around blushing brides, and bridzilla’s as well as bridesmaids, mother of the brides and even the flower girls.

So since I finally have access to the internet while at work (yay!) I decided to do some research on it and then thought I’d share it with you guys, as well as any thoughts I’d been having.

My main thought automatically went to what I’d call it. I had a few really bad ideas first, as I attempted a rhyming name and an even worse one when I tried out names such as Brides ‘R’ Us, which is the best of a horrible bunch. I then used inspiration from the shops near me, both of which have lovely names – Ivory Bridal and Star Tiara Bridal Wear. I even used inspiration from wedding vows, such as To Have and To Hold and Forever and Always Bridal. Both of which aren’t to bad, but could be rather cheesy.

Once I narrowed down my ideas, I did a quick Google search to make sure neither are an official brand. Neither of them are; but there are other shops with the same names, thankfully however they aren’t in the same area.

Next I wanted to fully consider the sizes and styles I’d offer. I myself am classed as “plus sized” and “a larger woman” so I know how difficult it can be to buy clothes in general, let alone a wedding dress! So if I did open a bridal shop, I’d stock as many sizes as I could. This led to me spending a long time googling if this was a common thing and it isn’t.

After I left work I drove over to Asda, so I could pick up a bridal magazine. I think unlike most of my insane thoughts this will be one I’ll follow-up on. I always did like the thought of being my own boss, running my own business and running a business the way I want to.

Do any of you have ideas like this? Have any of you followed through and they’ve worked out well? Leave a comment down below and tell me about them! Even if you didn’t, still let me know! It could be an awesome conversation starter!

Book Lover Anonymous

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WELCOME!

Hiya! 

Today I decided to start my first blog! I’ve always wanted to have a blog but I was convinced I could only do this if I was a “Beauty Guru” or had a very interesting life, but even though I am neither of these, I still plan to do this.

I plan on keeping this blog anonymous and I have no intentions of featuring my name for a long time. I will however say that I live in the small town of Portstewart in Northern Ireland and I like days out shopping, reading and going to gigs. 

I read a lot. Its the main thing I do in my spare time. I tend to pick up any book that looks interesting or that I’ve heard good reviews of, or if I like the author. I’m currently working my way through The Beautiful Creatures and I was here. I just finished reading The Infernal Devices, and I completely loved it. 

I will try hard to post regularly about everything and anything. I plan to mostly talk about books and music, and anything interesting that happens to me. I am also currently saving up for a camera so I can take better pictures of my day trips and talk about them here!

I will always reply to comments, as long as its possible and I’ll talk to you about anything!

I’m also on twitter as @BookLoverAnon

Talk soon!

Book Lover Anonymous